fix: proxy direct APNs HTTP2 sessions (#74905)

Summary:
- This PR routes direct APNs HTTP/2 sends through an APNs allowlisted managed-proxy CONNECT wrapper, adds APNs proxy validation/docs/guardrails, and expands regression and live-test coverage.
- Reproducibility: yes. source-reproducible: current main `sendApnsRequest()` still uses raw `http2.connect(au ... nly covers HTTP/global-agent/Undici hooks. I did not run a live APNs reproduction in this read-only review.

Automerge notes:
- PR branch already contained follow-up commit before automerge: test: guard raw HTTP2 APNs connections
- PR branch already contained follow-up commit before automerge: test: guard raw HTTP2 with OpenGrep
- PR branch already contained follow-up commit before automerge: lint: ban raw HTTP2 imports
- PR branch already contained follow-up commit before automerge: fix: use managed proxy state for APNs
- PR branch already contained follow-up commit before automerge: test: exercise APNs active proxy state
- PR branch already contained follow-up commit before automerge: fix: reject conflicting managed proxy activation

Validation:
- ClawSweeper review passed for head dab7c86a75.
- Required merge gates passed before the squash merge.

Prepared head SHA: dab7c86a75
Review: https://github.com/openclaw/openclaw/pull/74905#issuecomment-4350181159

Co-authored-by: jesse-merhi <79823012+jesse-merhi@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: clawsweeper <274271284+clawsweeper[bot]@users.noreply.github.com>

src/cli/proxy-cli.test.ts

@@ -26,6 +26,8 @@ describe("proxy cli", () => {
       "--proxy-url",
       "--allowed-url",
       "--denied-url",
+      "--apns-reachable",
+      "--apns-authority",
       "--timeout-ms",
     ]);
   });