fix(gateway): await startup sidecars by default

Co-authored-by: 忻役 <xinyi@mininglamp.com>

src/gateway/server-startup-post-attach.test.ts

@@ -197,6 +197,7 @@ describe("startGatewayPostAttachRuntime", () => {
       {
         ...createPostAttachParams(),
         unavailableGatewayMethods,
+        awaitSidecars: false,
       },
       createPostAttachRuntimeDeps({ startGatewaySidecars }),
     );

src/gateway/server-startup-post-attach.ts

@@ -520,7 +520,7 @@ export async function startGatewayPostAttachRuntime(
       params.log.warn(`gateway sidecars failed to start: ${String(err)}`);
     });
 
-  if (params.awaitSidecars === true) {
+  if (params.awaitSidecars !== false) {
     const [stopGatewayUpdateCheck, tailscaleCleanup, sidecarsResult] = await Promise.all([
       stopGatewayUpdateCheckPromise,
       tailscaleCleanupPromise,

src/gateway/server.impl.ts

@@ -230,7 +230,9 @@ export type GatewayServerOptions = {
     prompter: import("../wizard/prompts.js").WizardPrompter,
   ) => Promise<void>;
   /**
-   * Test-only: wait for post-listen sidecars such as plugin services before returning.
+   * Whether to wait for post-listen sidecars (channels, plugin services) to finish
+   * starting before marking the gateway as ready. Defaults to true; pass false to
+   * let sidecars start in the background.
    */
   awaitStartupSidecars?: boolean;
   /**